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I wish that i could change how my sister feels about her self. To be a strong and independent, intelligent woman. To realize that you need to get out there and find yoruself, among the casos and trouble. To make a path to call your own, and who to let go down your path with you. i just worry so much about her. I just don't know what to do anymore. I always seem to have a way of helping people. But, she just won't let me into your life. it's like there is the wall between us, no emotion, other than anger from her. She just thinks that i am stupid, cliche and too happy. Well, i know what it's like to be in pain, depressed, unhappy with myself. She just sits at home watching tv, listening music, and eating. Doesn't really go anywhere unless it's to a store with my dad or if i take her somewhere like shopping or to my house. she doesn't hang out with anybody or talk to anyone on the phone, she doesn't have internet, so that sucks. But, she won't get a job, or learn how to drive my dad's car so she can go look for a job. None of us can get her out to do that. i always bring her applicatons, the newspapers with jobs circled. And maybe i am pushing her and just pissing her off all together. But, i don't know what to do anymore. i always just say that i am trying to help. But she jsut says i am in the way, i don't need your help. girls, i am at a loss. My grama esther is worrie sick about her. and well, i just don't want her to go down the same path as my mother, and my grama says that she needs to get out and be with people. kelly hates peopel, she takes friggen anxiety pills, because she is afraid to be around people. she is a friggen hermit. help!
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Maybe your sis just hasn't quite figured out what she wants yet, perhaps she does want to figure it out on her own and find her own way. Your sister obviously have some rebel in her, so maybe being pushed is making her protest getting out there and doing stuff. I guess maybe try to be supportive but in a way that makes it seem like you don't care either way, if that makes sense, i don't know. I'll have to think about that one some more...
you should read "in her shoes" She reminds me of the sister who lives with the grandma and you the sister who is the lawyer...maybe you've seen the movie...in the end everyone finds a happy ending
I know how it is when your older sister just wants to help and means the best, but it's rather annoying, she's still young, it is important that she involve herself in things, as it is for everyone. I think maybe starting out slow instead of pushing her to get a damn job and stuff, maybe take her out for coffee or find things she wants to do and take her...hey if the place where you are at is hiring, doesn't hurt to pick up an app, right?! I dunno, I remember how heppy she was when she was talking about working in a coffee stand or something, this is obviously a tender time for her and needs support, I know its difficult when she annoys the piss outta you and you wana crap on her head, but just seek the things she likes, and make the effort that way, itll pay off in the end...yer sis rox!!! ok...i just totally rambled and blogged on yer blog!!
yes i have seem the movie and it's exactly like that, i just hope she can find her way and their is a happy ending. but, who by that age has never had a job. hello! she needs one. and my dad should be pushing her to do something, anything. just confused, disappointed and a little upset, by that situations. that's all.and i do have her do things she likes to do and i always pick her up apps. where i think she could do good. so i guess it's up to her, now if everyone else would leave me alone about it, like tony his parents, my grandparents, all them peeps, that i wouldn't feel the need to push her. god it sucks having to be the big sister. it just sucks sometimes.
gotta hate to love the big sis!!! If you were my sister I would totally sit on you and fart, or throw my fork at you..wait i'd do that anyways hehe!! She does need to have some sort of experience under her, maybe she could apply at c.d. places or something, I know that under it all she does hear you, but she just doesn't have any other motivation I dont think, that she realizes anyways! oh that girl....I bet yer gma would even help her get a car too, if she had a reason, and knew how to drive. she needs to practice. arg.
your phone is shut off!
i know, she forgot to pay the bill, but it's on now, and i can go on with my life.
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