The value of frienships

As i go through this life i am starting to realize what some people are about. who is really true for me and them together as friends and who is only out for themselves, i am tired of people using me and going around the bush about things. i just try so hard to support the people i think i should care about and i stand up for them, but sometimes their selfishness gets in the way of truly important things, like calling each other often to make sure everything is alright and telling me exactly what is going on and not just using me because they have no one else at the moment, i have some friends like that right now and it is very frustrating, i just really don't know what to do, so if you haven't contacted someone who you know is good and dear to you just give them a ring or a note, so they can feel assured that you still care, just a thought. just remember who your real friends are and not the ones who put you in bad situations or who are just for fun at the moment, because in the end, who is really going to be there for you no matter what, i really have some friends who are far away and i don't talk to very often, but i know if i needed something they would be right their, i just need to learn to not be so nice and let everyone walk all over me . so to everyone who m i love and reads this. thank you for being my friend and always being there when i truly need someone!