The value of frienships

As i go through this life i am starting to realize what some people are about. who is really true for me and them together as friends and who is only out for themselves, i am tired of people using me and going around the bush about things. i just try so hard to support the people i think i should care about and i stand up for them, but sometimes their selfishness gets in the way of truly important things, like calling each other often to make sure everything is alright and telling me exactly what is going on and not just using me because they have no one else at the moment, i have some friends like that right now and it is very frustrating, i just really don't know what to do, so if you haven't contacted someone who you know is good and dear to you just give them a ring or a note, so they can feel assured that you still care, just a thought. just remember who your real friends are and not the ones who put you in bad situations or who are just for fun at the moment, because in the end, who is really going to be there for you no matter what, i really have some friends who are far away and i don't talk to very often, but i know if i needed something they would be right their, i just need to learn to not be so nice and let everyone walk all over me . so to everyone who m i love and reads this. thank you for being my friend and always being there when i truly need someone!

shopping day

Saturday was a very wet day. i went shopping with my sister for a fundraiser for the soroptomist group. it was lots of fun, mimosa's on the way down, door prizes and drawings for gifts. once we got their we went to nordstrom's rack, ross' then up to the 3rd floor of macy's to drop off our bags, they hold them and put the on the bus, then we get them when we get home. After that my sister and i went to pike place market to eat at my one of my favorite places to get crab rangoon, the pike place chinese restaurant. then wewent to grandma's attic and i got a mini tea set and my sister got a cereamic black cat that we named ethyl, her real cat's name is lucy, isn't that cute! after the walk up we got dripping wet, so i went to payless to get a new pair of shoes and socks then we went and waited at macy's and had coffee and cookies. then we went home and had hotchocolate with bailey's and chocolate covered cheese cake, i also won some chocolates and bath stuff, lots of fun but i was really tired. at least this only happens once a year. it is worth the cause but, it is a lot of walking and it seems to always be the rainiest day of the year,. good thing tony had a fire going when we got home. well i', getting ready to make enchiladas so i bid a goodnite. sister love moons says to light the incense and relax with a nice cup of lemon chamomile tea, good nite.

Accident prone

So my work week was terribly messy. i spent most of the time doing for bad than good. it started on monday with me forgeting to put the spout on the ketchup dispenser. so ketchep spewed all over me, the kitchen and into the pockets of my apron. what a way to start the week, which contintued with me spilling macaroni salad, dumping pickles, dumping ice all over the place and numerous other errors at the cash register. i would like to blame it on my hormones, but i think i have rentered my childhood. it's funny but, it really looked like i murdered someone with all the kitchup that came out. hopefully next week will look much better, and my boss won't have to shake her head at me constantly. so it's friday and the work week is over. i am going on a shopping trip to seattle with my sister and future mother in law. it's for the soroptomist group. it is a group for the community consiting only of women who are pillars in the community. they raise money for women who are homeless, looking for careers who are low-income and for foster children . it is a really good think and my boyfriend's mom belongs to them. a whole bunch of women go on buses to spend all day shopping downtown seattle. so much fun--shoppping then i always go to pike place market to have chinese food--mmm crab rangoon. so hopefully this will start a good time for me..