Monday, May 23, 2011
the one item that gives me happiness
I have a new coach bag... i am happy about this... even happier that i saved hundreds of dollars on it.. best deal ever. and i am going camping this weekend.. yea 4 days off of work... so happy.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
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Just thought I would say hi.. Haven't really talked to anyone too much lately.. So many changes, so far apart.. I hope everyone is doing well.. I also just wanted to say thank you for the friendships you have brought me and to apologize for any issues in the past.. May your futures bring you much happiness. Good riddence!
Thursday, May 05, 2011
move out the way bitch. move out the way...
It has been so long since ihave been on here!
Well it's half way throught the year. 2 months into my new job, about 6 weeks for tony on his!
life is busy.. with us both driving 45 minutes each way to work, in opposite directions. the things we do for jobs and money. so we are still staying in the same area.
My job... well the girls i work with really do not like me .. well, they think i am trying to pin them against each other and break up the team, so everyone will quit and i can get new people in.
so not true. but apparently i have been talking behind their backs to other team members and they are texting each other to tell them what i say,,,, fucking stupid bullshit drama
so my goal is to never ever mention another team members name to a situation.... ever... because when i say.. this is our new goal... what do you think.. so and so doesn't not agree becasue of whatever reason... do you think the same thing.. if so.... why... i will tak this in consideration.
my real diologue should be:
this is our new goal... this is why we will be doing this... do you have any suggestions or ideas on this... i feel it will lead us to be proactive and not reactive if we are all aware and trained in this...
learning curve number one: never mention someone else's negatives to other team member, if you think they are there to help you.. cannot trust that my best interests will be translated correctly.. because apparently they are not.
grrrr. my job is stressful enough... to have drama.. so not cool
we are now headed into a team meeting just the 4 of us, to discuss our feelings and thoughts of the job. i am going to make an action plan and express my expectations once again, before the bitch fest happens.. because i am not going to let overly dramatic controling ocd mothers take the best of me. i know i shouldn't judge, but omg, seriously. just come to work do your job, go home.. no drama.. when i ask you to do something.. just do it.. i will find my way, our team will be totally awesome,i know it.. this is my challenge, nobody said it would be easy, apparently....
Well it's half way throught the year. 2 months into my new job, about 6 weeks for tony on his!
life is busy.. with us both driving 45 minutes each way to work, in opposite directions. the things we do for jobs and money. so we are still staying in the same area.
My job... well the girls i work with really do not like me .. well, they think i am trying to pin them against each other and break up the team, so everyone will quit and i can get new people in.
so not true. but apparently i have been talking behind their backs to other team members and they are texting each other to tell them what i say,,,, fucking stupid bullshit drama
so my goal is to never ever mention another team members name to a situation.... ever... because when i say.. this is our new goal... what do you think.. so and so doesn't not agree becasue of whatever reason... do you think the same thing.. if so.... why... i will tak this in consideration.
my real diologue should be:
this is our new goal... this is why we will be doing this... do you have any suggestions or ideas on this... i feel it will lead us to be proactive and not reactive if we are all aware and trained in this...
learning curve number one: never mention someone else's negatives to other team member, if you think they are there to help you.. cannot trust that my best interests will be translated correctly.. because apparently they are not.
grrrr. my job is stressful enough... to have drama.. so not cool
we are now headed into a team meeting just the 4 of us, to discuss our feelings and thoughts of the job. i am going to make an action plan and express my expectations once again, before the bitch fest happens.. because i am not going to let overly dramatic controling ocd mothers take the best of me. i know i shouldn't judge, but omg, seriously. just come to work do your job, go home.. no drama.. when i ask you to do something.. just do it.. i will find my way, our team will be totally awesome,i know it.. this is my challenge, nobody said it would be easy, apparently....
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